I often get asked, “how do you do everything you do?” and “how
do you stay motivated?”
Between work, school, dance, PR projects and making time for family and friends….oh and “me
time” it is definitely a constant juggle. Though, I make the time and I make it work.
I will be honest. It’s not always easy, and it can be
exhausting at times.
However, I am motivated by the plans I have for my future,
and my passion behind what I do. I am excited for what is yet to come, and I see myself doing
big things! I may have several interests, but ultimately I have a couple
of key goals that I strive to reach. Some people believe, “less is more,” and while I do believe
everything is good in moderation there are times we have to kick it into high
gear.
Staying organized is essential to one’s success,
particularly the busier we get. In order to accomplish my short term and long term goals, I
set expectations for myself. I create tasks and goals on a weekly, monthly and yearly
basis. For example, my resolutions for 2014 consist of several
goals that are attainable to achieve throughout the year, each one leading to
the next. These tasks are a constant reminder to keep working hard for
what I want. I even have them written down on a whiteboard on my fridge. Managing my time and balancing my priorities is something I will
always continue to work on. Once I commit to a project, I expect nothing less of myself
than to follow through.
However, juggling too many things can easily spiral out of
control. Be sure to not over commit yourself. Remember, it is ok to politely
say no to people and projects. If you sign up to do something, then do the best you can to
execute flawlessly. If you begin a task, but come across a road block remember
it is ok to ask for help.
Some of my own goals intimidate me, but I can’t let that
stop me from working towards them. Sometimes I think to myself “is this even realistic?” or “how
am I going to get there?” Having a positive mentality and open mind has allowed me to
try new things, leading me to open more doors. I take on as many opportunities as I can. I try to meet new
people as often as possible. Not everything has a positive outcome, but I learn lessons
in everything that I do and carry it forward to the next task.
I stay motivated by surrounding myself with encouraging
people. I can be my own worst critic at times, and come down on
myself pretty hard. I need people in my life that can help reassure me of my
accomplishments and my efforts. In return, I like to be the kind of person that can help and
inspire others. The world is competitive as it is, so the last thing we need
is to compete with ourselves.
Many of us are in the same boat trying to sail into the
future. I find it rather healthy and beneficial to listen to other’s
experiences to help us move forward. Hearing people’s stories helps me relate their journey and
struggles to mine.
Not all people that enter my life will be a positive
influence. I have learned that some people will enter my life to help
boost me up, while others enter my life to teach me a lesson. This has not been a concept I have been able to grasp
lightly. I genuinely get attached to people, and always find a way to
connect with them…even the most stubborn people. It’s who I am, and it’s in my nature.
I constantly have to remind myself that the negative energy
in some people only brings me down, and at some point I have to decide to cut
the cord. I don’t feel the need to answer to anyone or impress anyone
other than myself. It’s good to be challenged, but in a healthy way. I take feedback rather well, and I try to learn from others
as often as possible, but if an individual is distracting me from my path to
success then it is not worth dedicating the extra time.
PEOPLE in general inspire me. I observe everyone that I cross
paths with. Their posture, their tone of voice, and their non-verbals speak
measures. I learn a lot from people by watching their behaviors, but
most importantly engaging in conversations. It’s fair to say I’m quite the extrovert, but even the most
introverted person can learn from others by simply observing them.
There is definite truth behind the phrase, “never judge a
book by its cover.” The story a person far surpasses what we see or assume from
the outside. I am a rather curious person. I like to ask questions, I like
to know the HOW and WHY behind something, and I like to learn from people.
Getting to know different types of people is what motivates
me to be a better person, stronger woman, and happier individual. While I usually preach for people to not compare themselves
to others, there is a slight exception I make to this rule. The only time I compare myself to others is when I see
something I like and want it for myself. I don’t like to judge people, but let’s be real we all do
it. Judging doesn’t have to be a negative connotation, and as a matter
of fact I try to see the good in people and apply what I like about them to
myself and where I want to go. Simultaneously, learning from the elements I can't relate to or find harmful to my overall well-being.
We all have our own ways of staying motivated, but I’m a
firm believer in keeping an all-around positive attitude. I seldom post negative comments on social media because I feel
that the slightest notion of negativity will put a kink in my progress. I’m certainly not a fake person, and I’m only human so yes I
have days where all I want to do is vent. I leave those moments to when I’m alone, or occasionally with
a close friend.
Staying organized, asking for help and continuing to learn
from others has allowed me to juggle my projects and activities. I have learned that it is ok to say no, and to also take
time out for myself. My passion for what I do is what drives and motivates me to
do better.
I try to keep my eyes on the prize as I step forward, one
foot at a time.
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